Some people say, ‘Revenge is a dish best served cold.’
But they are wrong. Revenge is a dish that is best never served at all. Whenever it is served, regardless of the temperature, who does it serve? And to whom does it do a disservice? Just as anger is a destructive emotion, the desire to ‘teach someone a lesson’ carries a lesson of its own for the would-be teacher. It robs us of our freedom to let go, to move on and to do more constructive things with our time and energy..